Episode Transcript

Yo as a Pronoun
Episode 91: January 11, 2008

Yo! Grammar Girl here.

I have grammar news about the word yo this week. Listen through to the end because YOU may be able to help a language researcher.

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The grammar news is that Dr. Elaine Stotko, from the School of Education at Johns Hopkins University, and her student, Margaret Troyer, have discovered that school children in Baltimore are using the slang word yo as a gender-neutral singular pronoun. Dr. Stotko was teaching a master’s class at Johns Hopkins, and it came out during a discussion that several of the high school and middle school English teachers had noticed their students using yo as a pronoun. Often the students would be talking to another student, would point at the third person they were referring to, and would say something like "Yo threw a thumbtack at me." This made teachers think they were using yo to mean "he or she" instead of yo as you would normally hear in phrases like "Yo momma."

To test the theory, Stotko and Troyer showed kids a cartoon with a goofy-looking person, but the kids couldn't tell whether the person was male or female. Then they asked the kids to write a slang caption for the cartoon. Some of the kids wrote, "Yo crazy," instead of "He or she crazy," or "They crazy." Follow-up research showed that kids definitely intended yo to mean "he or she." They used yo
as a pronoun.

The researchers found that it was most common for the kids to use yo in the subject position; for example, "Yo wearin' a new coat," (to point out someone wearing a new coat). But they also used yo in the object position, as in "I saw yo at school," and "Look at yo." [Note: the kids also use "yo" as a generic pronoun to refer to someone even when they know it is a boy or a girl. So, for example, even though they know the person they saw at school was a boy, they might say, "I saw yo at school," instead of "I saw him at school."


The kids also frequently use yo as an attention-getter (as in "Yo, Adrienne"), and as a shortened version of your (as in "Yo momma"), but the researchers were careful to show that the use as a pronoun was distinct from these other uses.

In the past I've advocated strongly for using they as a gender-neutral singular pronoun when you can't rewrite the sentence to make the whole thing plural, and I still believe that's the best solution, but I also think the emergence of yo
to fill this role in slang is fascinating.

Maybe I find this story especially interesting because the kids seem to have spontaneously filled a void in the English language. As I've discussed before, English doesn't have a pronoun for cases where you don't know a singular person's sex. Traditionally, people have used he, but most style guides object to using he
because it is considered sexist and in some cases misleading. In the crazy cartoon example, for instance, if you were to write a caption that says, "He's crazy," you would lead people to believe the character is male.

What's also interesting about the kids’ language is that people -- mostly academics -- have been trying to introduce a gender-neutral singular pronoun into the English language for about 200 years, with very little success. And then a group of kids in Baltimore just make one up and start using it.

I was able to speak to Dr. Stotko on the phone last night and she was delightful. Of course, I wanted to know where the kids got "yo." Did it show up on some TV show, for example? And -- I love it -- she answered, "Who knows why kids do anything." The researchers were unable to find an origin. They even went so far as to review lyrics from over 3,000 rap songs to see if it might have come from rap music, but they didn't find anything. As a professor of linguistics, Dr. Stotko is very familiar with slang and changing language in general. She pointed out that kids are always creating and discarding slang terms, and that the whole point is to come up with things that their parents and other adults don't understand. She also pointed out that people create words when there is a need. For example, we always had the word pause,* but we invented the word unpause only when cassette tape players became popular and people would pause and then unpause tapes. [Note: Unpause
isn't in any of my dictionaries, but I've certainly heard the word used in the way Stotko describes.]

Now yo is still definitely slang. I doubt any of us will be writing, "When a patient comes in, have yo complete an insurance form," and I still believe they and them
are the best choices in such situations. Nevertheless, I have to hand it to the kids for achieving in their own private slang what academics have been unable to do in 200 years of trying.

Now, as far as Dr. Stotko knows, it's only kids in Baltimore (and maybe Milwaukee) who are using yo as a pronoun, but this is where you can help her research. She's going to be watching the comments section for this transcript at the QuickAndDirtyTips.com website. If you've heard kids outside of Baltimore using yo
in this way, or using another slang term as a gender-neutral singular pronoun, she wants you to post a message in the comments section, describe what you've heard, and name the city where you've heard it.

Again, Dr. Stotko is a professor of linguistics in the School of Education at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, Maryland. Among other things, she studies dialects, how language is a system, and language differences between men and women, all of which sound like an awful lot of fun to me! The research article was published in American Speech (1), the journal of the American Dialect Society.
 
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References
1. Stotko, E. and Troyer, M. "A new gender-neutral pronoun in Baltimore, Maryland: A preliminary study." American Speech, Vol. 82. No. 3, Fall 2007, p. 262.


For additional references see the Grammar Girl episode about generic singular pronouns.
 
* I shouldn't have used such an absolute word. We haven't always had the word pause. The Oxford English Dictionary dates the verb pause back to 1440.

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Elliot Says:
11/12/2008 5:07:19 PM
Hello, I am an 11 year old in Michigan (where exactly I will not reveal), however, I have found that LOTS of students (including myself) like using it. I think it is a good alternative, but I do not think we should go as far as putting it in the dictionary. ;-)
sameez Says:
10/8/2008 12:44:14 AM
dear, grammer girl my teacher likes you alot your even are school assiment. I have heard about the "yo" thing and i heard people say it in Redmond Wasing. sincerly, Sameez p.s i posted my teacher's e-mail adress up there.
Ben Says:
8/15/2008 8:56:19 AM
I often use 'yo' as a second person pronoun when talking to someone. I'll say "What's up, yo?" Or, "Listen, yo, I really don't think..." I am 30 years old, and have lived most of my life in Indiana, so I'm not sure where I picked it up, but there it is. Wow, there's a lot of pressure to use correct grammar when posting a comment here!
Jacovie Says:
7/17/2008 4:51:06 PM
This is so interesting! I don't know if this ha any connection, but the word "yo" in Spanish is a first-person subject and object pronoun; in other words, it means I or Me. Of course, from the podcast, I can see that these students are using it as a third-person pronoun, but it seems that they may have borrowed this word. Does anyone know if "yo" is used in any similar way in other languages? I'll do some research and post another comment if I find anything else.
Eric Says:
7/9/2008 11:22:10 PM
I'm from Silver Spring, Maryland, which is more D.C. than Baltimore, but certainly connected. From my perspective, we have used "yo" in this fashion since I was in Jr. High School ('84/'85). I've always thought that "yo" was the singular of "y'all" when used this way. Because when we say y'all, we often lazily leave off the 'lls. So, "y'all" sounds like "yah", and almost like "yo" anyway. The most common usage being, "What's up, yo?" Instead of, "What's up, bro", or dude, or man, etc. Not used extensively in any other way that I remember, but occasionally it was used in the ways described. Also, I'm not up on what the kidz are listening to anymore, if you get me. So, in my opinion, it's a "y'all" thing, yo. =E=
TERRANCE Says:
6/9/2008 3:56:34 PM
hi my name is terrance! i am from phoenix arizona, i am also a college student too and i been using the word yo as a pronoun for a about a year now. i thought i made it up myself. i say this because nobody else i know uses this word the way i use it. it is fun to see that people across the country talk just like me!
John Says:
5/29/2008 7:51:36 PM
i live in Seattle Washington an i hear it often. I do not use this very much an di found that it is more of a black term (not to be racist) like "hey look at yo over there"
Greg Says:
4/29/2008 12:53:56 AM
This is fascinating. Good for the Baltimore kids. I don't like "they," because it's so clearly plural--the English language really does need a new set of words. In 7th grade, I and a friend of mine attempted to fill this void by creating "Se" (he or she), "Erm" (him or her), and "Erz" (his or hers.) Se works well; erz is slightly problematic because it sounds too much like hers. But "yo" works.
Judi Says:
4/28/2008 7:10:21 PM
I teach in Columbus, Ohio. I hear a lot of "yo" as truncated "you" and as a pronoun, as well. Usually "yo" as pronoun refers to a person who is male, or if gender uncertain, looks very male. When the referent is clearly female, "yo" is not used.
T.Mendes Says:
4/26/2008 3:35:35 PM
I use "yo" as a contraction of "ya know". I would say "Yo yesterday I went to the mall," instead of "You know, yesterday I went to the mall." In this usage, it should be spelled "Y'o" like a contraction. I've heard the truncated forms of "Ya know" and "You", but this form of Yo is very intriguing... I'm Spanish speaking, so the usage of Yo as a third-person singular threw me off, since in Spanish it's first person singular usage only. Oh, hey Christianna, the word "Shim" refers to a guy that looks like a girl and vice versa. It isn't intended to be a non-gender specific pronoun, that just means the dude (or chick) looks like the opposite sex.
Tom Says:
4/23/2008 5:09:44 PM
English is a dynamic language. Words come and words go. Remember bitchin and groovy? Both long since consigned to the dust bin of faddish corny words. Like woot and yo will be. And yet, thank god, "cool" persists. Long may it live.
Kristin Says:
3/21/2008 1:34:34 AM
Interesting. I've never heard "yo" used as a genderless pronoun. In fact, I've used the word many times, only I use it as an informal greeting ("Yo! How are you?"), and only rarely, with a tongue-in-cheek attitude. I've also heard this word used as a short way of saying "your," such as in the "yo momma" jokes. e.g., "Yo sister is HOT."
Megan Says:
3/14/2008 10:28:06 AM
I live in PG County, Maryland, and I have a different theory. I'm pretty sure that these kids don't MEAN to create a whole new non-gender-specific pronoun: they just don't know what the heck they are talking about! Some people associate the word "yo" with the "ghetto" form of speaking, which, may I say, often uses totally incorrect grammar. For example, someone would say "I gots to go" or "You is so stupid," which leads me into my next point. If someone were to say "Yo is so stupid," then it SOUNDS like the person is using "yo" instead of "he" or "she." However, what's probably happening is that these "hip" kids don't know how to conjugate verbs in their own first language, and they really mean "You is so stupid," which, as most people should know, is totally incorrect.
lisa Says:
3/6/2008 11:30:22 AM
I second the others who have noted (and recommended) the HBO series, The Wire. I believe "Yo" is used in the way described quite frequently.
Christianna Says:
2/29/2008 10:40:36 AM
I'm in high school and I've heard the word "shim" a few times to refer to a person whose gender is unknown. I think its mostly used in a derogatory way, such as questioning the feminimity of a girl if she displays tom-boyish behaivior. But among my group of friends, we use it mainly to refer to someone that we haven't met or we are unsure of their gender.
maddie Says:
2/24/2008 1:14:38 PM
At myschool we se the slang Ya for a genderless person. We also use they, it, that one, and person 1. I live in Alanta.
mike Says:
2/21/2008 1:21:28 PM
We live in Yorktown, VA and I've heard my son and his friends use "yo" as described in your podcast. He is a high school senior. His school is diverse but still majority WASP (which he is too).
Melissa Says:
2/18/2008 9:16:21 PM
My daugher (11yrs, 5th grade) has used "yo" as described in the podcast and I've also heard her friends use it as well. We live in N.VA.
Chica Says:
2/15/2008 11:33:02 PM
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. This has been very common among young adults in my area. Sometimes I wonder whether they feel this kind of language makes them seem 'cool' or even 'hip'. I really don't know.
Larry Says:
2/14/2008 3:47:32 PM
M, we use "them" or "they" as singular pronouns because it's common practice, sounds/feels mostly correct, and we need to use something as genderless singular third-person pronouns. Haven't you noticed? Does that answer your question? What do you use?
M Says:
2/14/2008 11:27:30 AM
Why do you use "them" or "they" when you're referring to a singular noun? Ex: "When a patient comes in, have THEM fill out paper work."
Ross Says:
2/13/2008 5:02:48 PM
I live in Charlotte NC. I asked my teenage niece and she confirmed that kids at her high school use "yo" instead of he/she as described in the podcast.
Alissa Says:
2/13/2008 1:01:11 PM
I'm 30, I live in the San Francisco area. My friends and I use yo on Instant Messenger, as in, "How's it goin today yo?" It is quite common here, and I think IM contributes to truncating words in common usage. However, we seldom say, "Yo should go to the store." We might say, "Go to the store, yo!" It is directed at the person and adds emphasis, but is not replacing "you". Or we start a conversation with "yo" as well, as in the traditional, Rocky-style greeting.
Guglielmo Says:
2/7/2008 6:00:22 PM
Take a look at http://itre.cis.upenn.edu/~myl/languagelog/archives/005298.html . Towards the end, the page quotes: "Following our class discussion, one teacher had several conversations with his current Baltimore middle-school students about yo as a pronoun, to be told that yo is used for boys, but that shorty is used for girls: Yo is over there and Yo trippin' (boy); Shorty is over there and Shorty's lookin' good (girl)." Perhaps "yo" is a pronoun, but not a gender-neutral one.
chrispy Says:
2/6/2008 3:25:32 PM
I'm in Trenton, NJ; we get Philadelphia TV and radio here, which is not far from the Baltimore sphere of influence. I also work from home and live between two city schools. I hear A LOT of conversation, and have heard "yo" used as a pronoun, but as Kate (from Central Jersey) mentioned, it seems to be used more to indicate a thing (that) or a place (there) more than an gender-unknown person. Kids here seem to be too aware of gender (whether it's a pronoun's or another human's), but not concerned about correct subjective/objective forms of those pronouns. I hear a LOT of cringe-worthy phrases, from the rather innocuous but ubiquitous, "he say/she say," to "we all go to they/he/she house last night," (rather than THEIR/HIS/HER house) and "she's sister is a ..." (instead of HER sister). Yo is a very versatile part of speech here, as it is used as an abbreviated form of "your." And, it's used as an exclamation: "Yo! Get over here!" It is also a way to proudly finish a sentence (I think?) as in, "I'm representing 609, yo!" (that would be the area code, in case you're wondering).
Flibbert Says:
1/31/2008 11:25:00 AM
I don't know where I first heard "yo" used as a pronoun, but when I lived in Athens, Georgia, it was well understood. Example, "I couldn't believe yo didn't pick up the check at dinner and then thought he was going to get some play later." Aside from it being a pronoun, the use I've observed has always come with a tone of slight derogation.
Sheila Says:
1/31/2008 10:49:51 AM
I believe I heard "yo" or possibly "yoi" used as a third person pronoun in the film "How She Move." I wish I could give you a full quotation but didn't have a notebook with me in the cinema!
Paco Hope Says:
1/31/2008 9:42:34 AM
I think the idea that "kids are filling a void" gives them too much credit. They're just plain lazy with their language. It's not like they agonize over "is that a girl or a boy, gosh I don't know, I'll have to use a gender neutral pronoun." They probably use "yo" this way in situations where they know perfectly well whether it's a girl or a boy. They just don't care most of the time, so they use a lazy word. Get them to talk about something (like a situation involving one boy and one girl) and you'll probably see "he" and "she" used a lot, because it makes the conversation easier. Get them talking about something that is gender specific with respect to a third person who is gender indeterminate, and I bet you'll see them take a whack at it. For example "yo wearin a skirt." The sentence takes on very different meaning to an adolescent, depending on whether yo is a boy or a girl. I bet they will pick a gender and use it, instead of using "yo."
Ariana Says:
1/30/2008 10:56:04 PM
Hello, I live in bloomington, Illinios and very rarely here "yo" used to mean anything besides you.
mrskmt Says:
1/30/2008 5:08:01 PM
I live in Hawaii and we commonly use the word "you" in a manner similar to who "yo" is being used in this article. Example, we say "You wearing a coat today?"; "You going to the mall today?"
Spork Says:
1/28/2008 1:34:59 PM
Contractions as proper grammar is a relatively recent phenomenon. They were an organic development of the language in to regular, everyday, then proper and accepted usage. I wonder then, why the inventiveness of youth organically developing a useful gender-neutral pronoun can be so easily dismissed as "only slang." Is it because primarily brown people use it and created it?
F mcG Says:
1/26/2008 5:20:29 PM
In Haitian Kreyol "Yo" is a pronoun for "they". But it wouldn't be used when the gender is indeterminate because "li" is the all-purpose singular pronoun for either "he" or "she".
fraces Says:
1/25/2008 4:12:43 PM
I welcome a gender-neutral pronoun that works. Someone pointed out that 'yo' used this way replaces the pronoun and the verb, but that conjugation is pretty standard already in 'black English' (African-American vernacular, Ebonics, black vernacular English...)for example - 'she run fast'. Although many people cringe at this type of conjugation, the rules are consistent and it'd likely be considered a standard patois/dialect/pidgin/language if it weren't for the racial group associated with it. What I really like about 'yo' is that it's easy, and works. The trans community often desires gender-neutral pronouns, and having trans friends I can say it is often very awkward. To integrate a whole slew of new words like zie,zir for he/she and her/his or ey/em for he/she and him/her and there are many more is very difficult. I love the catch-all 'yo' that doesn't need to be conjugated - soooo much easier. I hope it catches on.
Rick Says:
1/25/2008 9:47:52 AM
I'm not sure I can respect Dr. Stotko's research on the face of it. "Yo wearing a coat." is NOT using "yo' simply as a pronoun, it's using it as a combination pronoun AND verb, replacing "'You ARE', or 'He IS wearing a coat.'" Most of the other examples were in the exact same vein. If a language researcher just blithely ignores that other part of speech being replaced, she's missing a major point. Kids use all KINDS of slang while growing and learning to communicate with peers, but the only language that survives the transition from slang to regular speech is that language that can be written down in something semi-formal. I can write 'Ya'll', for example, in an interoffice memo reminding everyone that the meeting is not volunatary, and everyone is expected to attend. But I could NOT say "Yo have there." or "Yo there." or any other the purmutations currently in vogue because they are missing the verb "to be". Until, and unless, that slang starts incorporating more parts of correct speech, it's as passing as the latest play on Broadway.
Gary Says:
1/23/2008 5:56:34 PM
My 15 year-old daughter reports that "yo" is only used in her circle of friends in Nashua, NH as shorthand for "you."
Kate Says:
1/22/2008 3:43:47 PM
I work with teens in Central NJ. But when I hear yo, I hear it in place of a "that" (e.g.- "What is yo?") when something is generally unidentifiable
Armando Says:
1/22/2008 11:44:13 AM
I had travel around the world as a waiter and I have observed the use of Yo in the first person overall in Chicago Area, When somebody asks who did this? the answers is: it was yo! Or, who prepared this great soup? one kitchen staff would say proudly yo! Now this is probably because the high Spanish speaking population in this industry, being yo the Spanish pronoun for I, but I have heard the same use, replacing I, in Cartoon shows like The Simpsons and Futurama.
Simon Taylor Says:
1/21/2008 4:35:11 AM
The UK's Spice Girl's 1996 hit 'Wannabe' has the following classic lyrics in the opening verse : "Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want, So tell me what you want, what you really really want, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want, So tell me what you want, what you really