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'Lay' Versus 'Lie'

The present tense is relatively easy: "lay" requires an object (you lay a book on the table), and "lie" doesn't (you lie on the sofa). The past tense and participles get so confusing though that we made a chart!

By
Mignon Fogarty
Episode #617
Woman Laying Down
The Quick And Dirty

Here are four ways to remember the difference between 'lay' and 'lie':

  1. "Lay" vs. "Lie" in Present Tense
  2. Think "Lay it on me"
  3. "Lay" vs. "Lie" in Past Tense
  4. How to Conjugate "Lay" and "Lie"

Today's topic is "lay" versus "lie."

How to Remember the Difference Between 'Lay' and 'Lie'

Here are four ways to remember the difference:

  1. "Lay" vs. "Lie" in Present Tense
  2. Think "Lay it on me"
  3. "Lay" vs. "Lie" in Past Tense
  4. How to Conjugate "Lay" and "Lie"

1. 'Lay' Versus 'Lie' in the Present Tense

First, we'll do the easy part, which is the present tense.

If you exclude the meaning "to tell an untruth" and just focus on the setting/reclining meaning of "lay" and "lie," then the important distinction is that "lay" requires a direct object and "lie" does not. So you lie down on the sofa (no direct object), but you lay the book down on the table (the book is the direct object).

This is in the present tense, where you are talking about doing something now: you lie down on the sofa, and you lay down a book.

There are a bunch of ways to remember this part.

lay versus lie

2. Remember the Phrase 'Lay It on Me'

The way I remember is to think of the phrase "lay it on me." You're laying something (it, the direct object) on me. It's a catchy, dorky, 1970s kind of phrase, so I can remember it and remember that it is correct.

What's that I hear, music in the background? I know I don't normally play music, but I love Eric Clapton, and his song "Lay Down Sally" can actually help you remember the difference between "lay" and "lie" because he's wrong.

Take the 'Lay' versus 'Lie' Quiz (in a new tab). ⇒

To say “lay down Sally” would imply that someone should grab Sally and lay her down. If he wanted Sally to rest in his arms on her own, the correct line would be “lie down Sally.”

You lay something down, and people lie down by themselves.

We don't have to judge Clapton on his grammar; we can still love his music and at the same time know that it's grammatically incorrect! In fact, that helps us remember, and we can love him more.

If you're more of a Bob Dylan fan, you can remember that "Lay Lady Lay" is also wrong. The lyrics should be “Lie lady lie, lie across my big brass bed.”

OK, so that was the present tense. It's pretty easy; you lay something down, people lie down by themselves, and Eric Clapton can help us remember. Let's move on to the past tense—it's harder.

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About the Author

Mignon Fogarty

Mignon Fogarty is the founder of the Quick and Dirty Tips network and creator of Grammar Girl, which has been named one of Writer's Digest's 101 best websites for writers multiple times. The Grammar Girl podcast has also won Best Education Podcast multiple times in the Podcast Awards, and Mignon is an inductee in the Podcasting Hall of Fame. Mignon is the author of the New York Times best-seller "Grammar Girl's Quick and Dirty Tips for Better Writing" and six other books on writing. She has appeared as a guest on the "Oprah Winfrey Show" and the "Today Show" and has been featured in the New York Times, Business Week, the Washington Post, USA Today, CNN.com, and more. She was previously the chair of media entrepreneurship in the Reynolds School of Journalism in Reno, NV. She hates the phrase "grammar nazi" and loves the word "kerfuffle." She has a B.A. in English from the University of Washington in Seattle and an M.S. in biology from Stanford University. Mignon believes that learning is fun, and the vast rules of grammar are wonderful fodder for lifelong study. 

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