Do You Have Annoying Handshake Habits?

June 28 is National Handshake Day. Celebrate with the Public Speaker and learn the right (and wrong) ways to shake hands.

Lisa B. Marshall
Episode #256
  1. Smile and make eye contact with the person first.

  2. If you are seated, stand up. It’s a sign of respect. Then step toward the person.

  3. While stepping forward, extend your right hand for the shake. North American etiquette says that you always  offer your right hand. If you’re in a situation where you’ll be meeting new people, try to keep your right hand free.

  4. Create a firm grip by making web-to-web contact.  If you accidentally grab the fingers instead, just adjust your grip.

  5. End the handshake in 3-4 seconds, or when the other person loosens their grip.

  6. If your palms are sweating, discreetly wipe them on a napkin or your leg before extending your hand for a shake.

In our global society, it's very important to be aware of cultural differences.  Handshakes do vary by culture. For example, a handshake in Japan is limper than an American handshake. If you are traveling to another country, brush up on the local handshake etiquette before you go. If you are from another culture, but doing business in North America or mostly with North Americans, follow the rules I prescribed above.

If you want to learn more about this, listen to my episode on North American Business Handshaking.

This is Lisa B. Marshall, Helping you maximize sales, manage perceptions, and enhance leadership through keynotes, workshops, books, and online courses. Passionate about communication; your success is my business.

If you want even more success in your life, I invite you to listen to my other podcast, Smart Talk:  Inspiring Conversations with Exceptional People.



About the Author

Lisa B. Marshall

Lisa B. Marshall Lisa holds masters with duel degrees in interpersonal/intercultural communication and organizational communication. She’s the author of Smart Talk: The Public Speaker's Guide to Success in Every Situation, as well as Ace Your Interview, Powerful Presenter, and Expert Presenter. Her work has been featured in CBS Money Watch, Ragan.com, Woman's Day, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, and many others. Her institutional clients include Johns Hopkins Medicine, Harvard University, NY Academy of Science, University of Pennsylvania, Genentech, and Roche.

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